Sunday, July 26, 2009

Does this girl like me?

okay; I've got a situation for you guys.



I have a sister, who is 18 years old and I ended up meeting a friend of hers, who is 15 [my age!~]; and it turns out that she's mega attractive. And she has a really good personality too. aka she fits the bill really well... anyways I've 'hung out' with her like three times only in the 6th months I've known who she is; you know; like my sister would take me shopping; and have her friend come with as company; so it would be just the 3 of us.... and I've decided that I like her a lot. The only thing is; i can't tell if she likes me back or is interested at all!



The first time I ever met her; we didn't really know each other; so it was kind of goofy because all of a sudden we were hanging out in a kind of unintentional way. haha



but the second time I really talked to her a lot more and tried to not be so shy; and I was able to make her laugh and it seems as though she likes my sense of humor.



The third time; it was a little boring/awkward because I guess she takes some kind of medication for [idk what it is]; but she says it makes her feel like crap;... aka; she didn't talk much; and it really was just a so-so time....



thing is; I don't see how I'd ever get past being friends with this girl because I have these concerns/worries:



A) I think it would be goofy to be going out with someone who's good friends with your sister; because you almost feel like you're stealing her from your sister ya know?



B) If she does go out with you; if you break up; things could be weird if you see each other again/or end up with your sister and she comes along... there could be unwanted drama you know??



C) She gets hit on guys A LOT. See; she tends to go for the whole "scene kid" look; and I dress more like an 80s headbanger [i.e. tight pants/really nice long hair/band t shirt/chuck taylor shoes]



And it just makes me wonder if it's even worth trying to get with a girl that maybe sitting there with dozens of other guys on her mind that aren't me...



D) Like I said; I've known her for 6 months. Pathetic to have only hung out with her 3 times don't you think?



I mean; the thing is I talk to her on myspace at bare minimum once a week to see how she's doing and how her days are and everything; but sometimes I feel like maybe I've already waited to long to ask her out or start asking about being more than friends?



Things that make me think I might have a chance with her:



A) She still talks to me! I'm on her fricking top friends on myspace and I'm the only guy on her top friends! So I at least know I'm somewhat a valued person to her!



B) When we hang out; she sometimes does this random pokey-I wanna touch you cutesy thing... like; I was in hot topic one day and she kind of playfully poked me in the stomach; just kind of goofing around and stuff.... the only thing is I don't know if it's one of those 'touchy feely' emotions or just another joking around thing.....



C) The second time we hung out; I felt like we flirted a lotttt. Or at least; I felt like I threw myself out there that day for her; more than I normally do for girls to maybe put it in her mind that I'm interested.... and it seems as though she may be just waiting for me to ask her what she wants to do as far as friends/relationship...



The only thing is; this girl is very very very outgoing towards people... aka; I can't really tell if she's just being nice to me and is the same way to everybody else; or maybe she does kind of like me! I don't know because sometimes I feel like she may not like me at all; but others I feel like I have a chance!



With me being 16 soon; I'll be getting a job and a car; so I could drive her places and stuff; and not have to worry so much about the whole awkward sister-being-around all the time thing...



p.s. note this girl is younger than me; but it's by less than a year....so idk if that give me more of a chance? haha?



SO; to sum it up:



1) DO you think this girl maybe like/willing to be more than friends with me?



2) Should I ask her out? And of course; how should I ask her out? [considering the fact that normally the only time I'm around her is when my sister is with too.. which makes things a little weird if you really want to try to connect with her...]



also; I'm sorry if this was a confusing question; It's just that I tend to think wayy to much about stuff like this and it's always been hard for me to get my thoughts in order when talking about girls/relationships and getting my views across exactlyyy..



thanks! I look forward to some good advice!



Does this girl like me?

Try a few more times to test the waters. See how she responds before you put your feelings on the line. No one likes getting dissed. You should definitely invite her out but maybe it is not time yet for one on one with her. try a group thing with your friends instead of your sister. See how she reacts to being around you in you surroundings. Maybe take her to see something scary like the horror show at the wax museum or a scary movie , sit close to her and be her knight in shining armor. When you get time to talk to her one on one talk about your ambitions, such as a job and a ride, maybe that will help her to know that you are not planning on being a bum but that you have goals. Tell her nice things about herself, like she smells good or looks nice In a certain color, that the sun makes her hair look o shiny and beautiful. Some times you have to be brave and just go for it but at least know that if you do not get the response you want from her that there will be plenty of other opportunities. Good Luck!



Does this girl like me?

You really like this girl to write that much, huh?



i'm sorry but Im totally lazy right now...



buht.....



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Does this girl like me?

omg you wrote wayy too much but youre hella hotttt



Does this girl like me?

Just ask her, you wont know until you do.



Does this girl like me?

WOW u put alot of thought and time into that. honestly i dont think she likes u i think shes just being nice and ur her sisters friend so shes talking to u and hanging out w/ u bc ur there...just because u have a diff style doesnt mean she wont like u. im more into the "preppy" look but i love a guy in some boots and carhartts lol but i would just ask ur sister what she thinks plus if she doesnt like the thought of u two than u should forget about it anyways just out of respect of ur sister. maybe ur putting way too much thought into this girl i mean uve only hung out 3 times in half a year?! thats not a lot. maybe next time try dropping a hint like ask her if she has a boyfriend and then a little while later tell her shes pretty or hott or something so she knows ur interested and then see how she reacts. if shes outgoing im sure if she liked u she wouldve already said something to ur sis so ask her if she has or she wouldve already said something to u. i think if she liked u she wouldve been coming around way more than just 3 times in 6 months tho!



Does this girl like me?

I don't know if she likes you or not..it's all about body language. But get to know her more. Call her or text her every once in a while(just not everyday!) Subtly let her know your into her, like stare into her eyes, sit close to her, smile at her for no reason. You know, little things girls like. After a while of hanging out with her, let her know how you feel. If she feels the same, then ask her out! Just don't rush things, or appear too clingy...us girls like a [small] chase!



Good luck! =)



Does this girl like me?

i think you should just go for it. it sounds like u really like her and i think she really likes you too. and the whole she's friends with my sister thing dont worry about it. i went out with my best friends brother and we broke up and it was only weird for like a week but then we got over it, so dont worry about that... best of luck. i hope it all works out for you!



Does this girl like me?

yeah..it was waaay too long, i couldnt finish. buut, i think that the solutio to any question about figuring out where someone stands in a situation is to simply ask them. it may be embarrassing at first, but its easier just to get it overwith. hope this helped. :]

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